For the youths, I have 2 teen daughters, and I tell them these:
-Enjoy your youth, don't be too serious, learn new things everyday, explore, make lots of friends, find what and where you're good at.
-Don't be in a rush to have serious bfs, friends are fine, hanging out is ok, if you like someone, it's ok to date them, but don't leave your friends out, because bf's come and go and friends stick with you.
-I'm actually ok for them to date around so they will be more aware of how relationship goes, and they find out more about themselves and the kind of guys they want to be with.
-Finish your studies, find a good job, be independent before getting married. Nice guys would be drawn to educated, independent and decent women.
For the marrying age:
-Love comes when you least expect, so don't be too desperate finding the right guy.
-Give chances to guys outside your radar, just give them a chance to get to know them and maybe you can find something you like
-Don't trust guys who are good talkers, because they're just that and nothing else. Wait till you see them do something before you believe.
-Don’t also trust guys who pressure you into doing something you’re not ready. If they really love you, they should always respect how you feel and will be patient. But if you feel that he’s not the right person for you, break up with him right away and don’t waste each other’s time.
-Choose a guy whom you can see growing old with, not yung dahil inlove ka lang, dahil pogi, mayaman. What if all these goes and be a regular person, would you still love him?
For the wives:
- Marriage is a partnership, both spouses are equally important.
- Choose your battles, hwag nang palikihin ang maliit na bagay, pero speak up when you feel that you need to say something whether it be complaints, praises, problems. Learn how to communicate with each other.
- Marriage takes effort and hard work. Don’t get stuck in a rut, continuously try to connect.
- Trust in each other, no amount of trials can destroy a marriage with a good foundation.
- There is life after infidelity as long as once it only happened once. Both parties should be willing to save and work out their relationship. But destroyed trust is hard to repair because you have betrayed your spouse and sometimes separation is better. Life does not end there. Move on, find love again either by forgiving your husband and going back to him or with someone new. You have those choices.
-Enjoy your youth, don't be too serious, learn new things everyday, explore, make lots of friends, find what and where you're good at.
-Don't be in a rush to have serious bfs, friends are fine, hanging out is ok, if you like someone, it's ok to date them, but don't leave your friends out, because bf's come and go and friends stick with you.
-I'm actually ok for them to date around so they will be more aware of how relationship goes, and they find out more about themselves and the kind of guys they want to be with.
-Finish your studies, find a good job, be independent before getting married. Nice guys would be drawn to educated, independent and decent women.
For the marrying age:
-Love comes when you least expect, so don't be too desperate finding the right guy.
-Give chances to guys outside your radar, just give them a chance to get to know them and maybe you can find something you like
-Don't trust guys who are good talkers, because they're just that and nothing else. Wait till you see them do something before you believe.
-Don’t also trust guys who pressure you into doing something you’re not ready. If they really love you, they should always respect how you feel and will be patient. But if you feel that he’s not the right person for you, break up with him right away and don’t waste each other’s time.
-Choose a guy whom you can see growing old with, not yung dahil inlove ka lang, dahil pogi, mayaman. What if all these goes and be a regular person, would you still love him?
For the wives:
- Marriage is a partnership, both spouses are equally important.
- Choose your battles, hwag nang palikihin ang maliit na bagay, pero speak up when you feel that you need to say something whether it be complaints, praises, problems. Learn how to communicate with each other.
- Marriage takes effort and hard work. Don’t get stuck in a rut, continuously try to connect.
- Trust in each other, no amount of trials can destroy a marriage with a good foundation.
- There is life after infidelity as long as once it only happened once. Both parties should be willing to save and work out their relationship. But destroyed trust is hard to repair because you have betrayed your spouse and sometimes separation is better. Life does not end there. Move on, find love again either by forgiving your husband and going back to him or with someone new. You have those choices.
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